• Zarobi@aussie.zone
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      25 days ago

      Some of my friends like to make “fake plans”, just to talk or something I guess? Like they’ll make up this whole vague scenario, but when I ask what date and time specifically, apparently that is the incorrect thing to ask

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        Same. So I just started going with the flow and now I get occasional passive aggressive replies for these plans never coming into existence. I guess I made these imaginary scenarios sound TOO good… but if they’re not going to be real, who needs to think about budgets or time restraints.

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    25 days ago

    I’m at the age that the first train to the event being full is enough to make me go home.

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    I park as far away as I’m able to walk in order not to drive around to find parking. I’ve found that it saves time on the long run, gas, and mor importantly my own stress and mental health.

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      I do that to. What I love is that while walking the last hundreds meters to the place you are going you can see all the people who try to park close that are all getting angry in their cars, proving you were right to park further away.

      Once you start you never go back.

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        24 days ago

        Fill in the blank with any EU country after shaking hands with France lol

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      Tourism taking all the parking in your small European town?
      Can’t park at the only town store because tourists are everywhere and I can’t park my car and don’t want to be a dick and leave it on the street with 4 blinkers on like any random BMW douche?
      Go home hungry and wait till the next day?
      Yeah, I’m laughing in European too.

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    25 days ago

    I will drive 20 extra minutes not to wait 10 minutes in gridlock.

    I will park a mile away and walk in rather than circle for 10 minutes for a parking spot.

    I wife is not a fan of either of these traits.

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    25 days ago

    If you can bike, bike. Bike parking always within 50m of the venue 😎

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    It’s way before that for me. When I get word of the event, I look up the venue immediately to see the parking situation. If it’s bad and the event isn’t too important, I’m not going.

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      This is the way. I’ve learned after too many concerts, fairs, games, various other large events, that is just not worth it. I’m taking public transit, petal taxi, Lyft, whatever. I don’t want to spend 2 hours of my day doing nothing but staring at tail lights.

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    Then why did you take your car?

    “I’m going home because I didn’t find a parking space” sounds like someone who drove there entirely alone. Look how much space a car takes up for just one person.

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    I don’t drive a car and hate them very much, but I have this in common with motorists. Only what I’m looking for is a secure place to lock my bike. Which is somehow often rarer than a parking space for cars.

    I got my bike stolen while it was locked by the side of a Walmart, so now I’m much more careful about the “parking situation” and I use a bike share or public transit if I fear for the safety of my vehicle.

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        It’s illegal where I live to lock a bike to “urban furniture”, and a pole is also often not the safest place. If not stolen, it will be removed by the city.

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            A few months to a few days. And they leave notices on the bikes before taking them anyway. But the point is, a pole is my least favorite option to lock my bike. It’s dead last in the list of choices.

            It’s an “illegal” last resort that means there’s no bike racks near my destination, or they are all full. So just like the meme says, I’m at the stage where if I can’t securely park and lock my bike somewhere, I’ll turn around or won’t go. If there’s space for an ocean of parking for cars, there’s space for a bike rack somewhere.