• Devolution@lemmy.world
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      17 hours ago

      Toxic masculinity is a cultural mindset. Men should not be talking about their feelings because it’s weak and “gay” says society.

      That’s what I’m going for.

      • TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world
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        15 hours ago

        trying talking about your feelings as a man and see how society reacts…

        spoiler: it won’t be pleasant.

        sort of like how these men in the article are talking about their feelings…

        • Hacksaw@lemmy.ca
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          Yeah that’s what toxic masculinity is. People (men and women) hold toxic views of what a man should be, and punish men for staying from this ideal.

          You were a victim of toxic masculinity when you shared your feelings and were then victimised because of it. The people you shared your feelings with were toxic assholes.

    • wirehead@lemmy.world
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      17 hours ago

      To riff off of Margret Atwood, men go to AI chatbots because they won’t laugh at them. Women go to AI chatbots because they won’t kill them.

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        I hatr that cliche so much. One of that thing is far more likely to happen than the other.

        Hint: it’s not the murder.

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        16 hours ago

        did you read the article? this doesn’t seem related at all

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          15 hours ago

          No, they are just here to spout cliche gender war bullshit about how men are awful for existing.

          and if you asked them about women on male violence they’d deny it exists.