As a 40+ yr old, I gave up decades ago
Eventually it becomes other people’s problem, not yours.
huhh I don’t get it, I’m thinking of the context if i speak with people who speak to me with respect, i will really make effort to tell what i think, I believe this post can be interpreted also as a struggle for people who have dozens of thoughts and a brainstorm but they’re in a social situation which requires fluidity…?
Well said
When i get excited or angry my ability to articulate goes out the window. It usually comes out as mumbled gibberish
I think that’s cute (:
If i cant smoke and swear then I’m fucked. I only got my grade 10. I wont be able to properly defend myself
And now try the same, Foreign Language Enhanced! 😂
I’ll never forget talking to a guy that was literally the only native speaker of his language for like six months.
I could tell he really needed a break, but couldn’t help.
I bet he talked someone’s ear off though whoever they happen to be.
I can relate to this. Sometimes I feel like my vocabulary is the thing lacking, I don’t know if that’s actually what it is but I’ve started to read books again because of it. Recently picked up Count of Monte Cristo and am liking it so far. Not sure if it’s helping, but it’s good.
This is a very accurate illustration of ADHD.
I should get checked because I probably wouldn’t be such an interjection when I run ideas contrary to the current conversation.
It’s funny, at the early stage, but I tend to get abandoned.
This is the most relatable thing I’ve seen all week.
I feel that. I’ve also started blurting out similar sounding words to what I’m trying to say and it’s weird. Getting old sucks (and I was always pretty bad at talking)
If what you want to say is a 20mm cannon round then maybe dial it back a bit unless you’re trying to blow up family dinner
I don’t get it. People can’t speak?
I understand not wanting to speak, but not the lack of ability.
Of course I can speak. I spend fifteen minutes practicing my order in my head first, of course. And then yeah, I probably get the words on the wrong order. But they’re all mostly there.
This morning I spent like 1 minute in a meeting wanting to say something scrolling in my head but the mouth was not cooperating at all with the words, so after a bunch of time and noises I just say “fuck the words” which actually worked and only then after pausing and waiting for the mouth to sync properly was I finally able to speak.
I’m autistic,and yes, I sometimes can’t speak.
I try to say something, but instead it comes out in a way no one can understand.
For whatever it’s worth, whenever I am finally able to understand thoughts that come from a way different context than my own it is super satisfying. It’s like finding a hidden world that was underneath my feet all along.
“I have one main point I want to convey with five points of supporting evidence but actually each of those require arguing and some qualifications and point 4 is an essential part of the argument for point 1 and all of this reminds me of a funny conversation in a tv show that to me does a better job of explaining it but if you haven’t seen it what’s really important about that show is that it came out at the height of the War on Terror and -”
You probably stopped listening around the word “supporting” and I don’t blame you for that
The problem is thoughts are a web, and speech is a line. Someday I hope we will be able to brain dump through our neural implants.
Oh no… Imagine tiktok content in those times
Aphasia sucks. There’s a dam between my brain and my mouth and sometimes the right word gets caught on it so I have to start throwing out cinnamon rolls
You’re trying to say you truly don’t understand the concept of getting tongue tied?..
“No you!” -me
Also, what I want to say compared to my patience to type it on a touch screen with my thumbs.
I now get anxiety as I’m talking that the word I need two or three words from now just isnt there.
I’ve noticed over the last 6 years it’s becoming more difficult to order at drivethrus. not because I have changed, but because the kids working there have.
the kids working in that position these days were in or just entering Jr high when covid hit. they lost important years of social growth through almost their entire highschool career.
the future looks bleak.
I’m fairly certain I can rig up a makeshift barrel and a good enough firepin. Go for the old fuck it’s what’s the worst that can happen…
