• village604@adultswim.fan
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    18 hours ago

    It actually is an issue. Most women don’t like having their cervix punched repeatedly. Girth can also cause pain. It really sucks when you can see it in their eyes that they start hurting but they tell you to keep going (my SO gets mad if I stop because she decides when she taps out).

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      5 hours ago

      A fun thing I’ve learned recently is that cocks too big to take everyday are called “vacation dicks”. The “just right” ones are “boyfriend dicks” or “husband dicks”.

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      7 hours ago

      The latter part here is the important thing. She communicates it, and until she says otherwise, don’t stop hammering or you’ll frustrate her.

      My ex wife just couldn’t enjoy it, but tbh that’s because she wasn’t that into me. My girlfriend now just goes absolutely insane for it. There is a noticable physical accommodation difference in the two that I feel, and I guess the major difference is that she has a minimum arousal level before it’s effortless for her. And that’s both of us, its not great if Im not SSJ Blue and she’s not lost her mind enough.

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          11 hours ago

          It’s quite variable too. I’m very average in terms of length and with one partner we discovered that that’s enough to hit the cervix. She did not have a pleasant experience that time. Others have been fine with my size (minus one size queen who found it far too small)