laurenceOfSuburbia@lemmy.world to memes@lemmy.world · 1 month agoIntroverts will do anything but ask for helplemmy.worldimagemessage-square72linkfedilinkarrow-up1924arrow-down19
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minus-squareA_Random_Idiot@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up16arrow-down3·1 month agobecause a lot of us have learned that, while we have to be there for everyone and everything, no one will ever be there for us no matter what. So we endure and improvise.
minus-squareNotyou@sopuli.xyzlinkfedilinkarrow-up8·1 month agoSometime in my late 20s early 30s, I was told hyper independence is a sign of trauma. I’ve been working to trust people more, but it’s tough.
minus-squareA_Random_Idiot@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up5·1 month ago I was told hyper independence is a sign of trauma Oh, I know.
minus-squareMalyca@lemmy.ziplinkfedilinkarrow-up2·30 days agoIt’s slow going but rewarding and worth it, don’t give up
because a lot of us have learned that, while we have to be there for everyone and everything, no one will ever be there for us no matter what.
So we endure and improvise.
Sometime in my late 20s early 30s, I was told hyper independence is a sign of trauma. I’ve been working to trust people more, but it’s tough.
Oh, I know.
It’s slow going but rewarding and worth it, don’t give up
This is exactly how I feel.